Five Surefire Signs You Have a Good Man by Your Side

Are you fully satisfied with your relationship? Can you trust your man? Here are five characteristics that show that you have the perfect man by your side.

Five Surefire Signs You Have a Good Man by Your Side
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How do you know if you have the perfect man by your side?

Whether you are in a long-term relationship or you have just begun your journey together as a couple, it is vital to understand if the person with whom you're sharing (or going to share) your life and spend time together is a good man (and if you can trust him fully).

You can see whether your man is truly 'good' by seeing how he treats you.

Here are five characteristics that show that he is the right one for you:

1. He is never abusive

A man should never be violent unless he is in danger. Therefore, no matter how heated the argument is, he must never become physically violent because he is aware that abuse is wrong no matter what.

Even if he has been cheated or lied to, he knows it is imperative to stay calm and control himself rather than act like an uncivilized person.

2. He is supportive

He will support you even if he does not understand your goals because he values your happiness and fulfillment. However, if he believes that you are reaching for something that will end up as a disaster, he will try to explain that you should switch to something different and better.

3. He makes you feel safe

Providing protection and security in a relationship is still considered the man's most valuable obligation. A good man knows then it is time to stand up for his partner and protect her, even if that threat is as simple as being taken advantage of.

4. He is always honest with you

A good man will never cheat, no matter how tempted he is. This is because he values his partner much more than anyone else and will never jeopardize his relationship. A good man has probably learned this lesson the hard way by being cheated on, and he will never allow his partner to go through the same.

5. He is selfless

At the beginning of the relationship, some men act selfless to bribe their partner because they lack confidence. However, a good man will keep being selfless no matter how easy he thinks it is to keep his partner. He will never choose his friends over his partner to spend the weekend with.

And never forget that a good man always makes you feel special!